What’s hard for you, friend?
I don’t want to sound insensitive, but a lot of what we think is hard is just our minds annoyed by our daily life. Our minds default to our jobs, being a mom, dating.
But is it really hard or do we just automatically feel that way because we don’t want to do it?
Our minds like to automatically complain, find the negative, and be safe even when it’s actually not that hard. Our minds can even take things that are BORING and convince us that they’re HARD.
What is it that pushes you outside your comfort zone hard? Pushes you to become a better version of yourself?
The “this feels scary as sh&*” and “I don’t know if I can do this” hard.
It could be for some of us that it is a loved one getting an illness. It could be getting married, dating, having a kid, or birthing a business.
Or it could just be as simple as allowing yourself to dream. Or committing to 3 times a week of real exercise.
Tom Hanks says “It’s the hard that makes things good” in A League Of Their Own and it rings true in real life, not just on the field.
I want to encourage you with that today.
Whatever you think is hard, find how it’s good. Find how it’s pushing you to be the next best version of yourself.
And when you know it’s hard and it’s pushing you to grow, tell yourself what I tell myself. “I can do hard things.”
Because then it’s not just “hard”. Then it becomes “good”.