Are you waiting on God for a husband?
The thing is love IS romance/God/timing.
AND it’s what you do.
I kept waiting on God. I would go between blaming him for being alone, doubting if it was in the cards for me, and saying I was trusting him.
This belief kept me stuck. I didn’t take ownership for my part. There was no awareness for what I was doing and not doing. And if there was no awareness, there wasn’t a way for me to take responsibility and change.
We don’t wait on God for a job. We send resumes and network.
We don’t wait on God to lose weight. We take responsibility for our actions and we eat less sugar. I finally realized I was using God as an excuse for not taking the hard look at myself.
Taking responsibility and making changes in my love life was a lot harder than my blaming/trusting God.
But it was totally worth it.
Because when I did, I started unwinding toxic dating patterns. I started seeing how indecisive I was. I started discovering and attracting the right men for me. (And I met my husband!)
This is the work I get to share with my clients. It’s empowering and life giving and love finding. It can be yours too.
Go to the Work With Me page to get started.